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I help people to discover their passions while walking in their purpose on purpose with a purpose and ultimately living a fulfilling life that leads to healthier, stronger, and more satisfying relationships.

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Walking in Your Authentic Self

What it takes to be Vulnerable?

~Building Boundaries

~Trusting or Trusting Again

~Facing Your Giants

The Transparency Theory Book




Have you ever felt like you were falling into a deep dark abyss? Or felt embarrassed, shameful, confused, or clueless in your relationship? Well, that's what happened to me. One night while laying in bed with my then, spouse of 17 years, I decided it was a good time for pillow talk and I asked the question, "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" The response I received changed my life. You see, this wasn't my first time asking this question. I would ask after we had reached the goals or dreams we desired. 

This time it was different in that I could hear agitation and the mood and tone were off. So, I decided that I would begin working on myself personally over the next year. I was a wife, a mom of 3 daughters, a caregiver for 2 years for my mom in law who had a stroke and was paralyzed on one side, a full time student, a full time employee, and a Discipleship Facilitator at my church which was a 3 year program commitment. I was also a hair stylist, along with other activities in church, and home. And, I forgot to mention that I was a relational life coach as well. Do you see yourself yet? 

I decided that instead of falling into a dark abyss and becoming hopeless about my future, I gave myself permission to become my greatest self and you can too.  I changed my diet, began exercising, lost 45 lbs, and had a mommy makeover. I took charge of my life after taking care of everyone else for almost 30 years. I got my sexy back!! I discovered my purpose and I was on my way to my destiny.


We can work together and I can assist you in discovering your authentic and genuine self and the you that lies within. I found myself reinventing me at 45 years old. This works at any age. You just need to make a commitment to yourself and take action. It's time to dream big and capture your joy again. 


Have you seen yourself and/or heard your story in whole or partial in the above? Are you ready to be restored, rejuvenated, and renewed? You deserve to feel whole, happy, and at peace with yourself and others. I have helped people from all walks of life to self discover paths that lead to healthier, stronger, and more satisfying relationships. From housewives, singles, couples (married & dating), to  persons with grown children and younger children. I've helped professionals, business owners, people with desires to become business owners, Doctors, Lawyers, and other Coaches and the list goes on and on.




I am an International Speaker, Author, Content Creator, Mindset shift Coach, Transformative Coach, Certified Life Coach through the ICF, Certified MS Clinical Psychology Counselor, podcaster, talk show host (coming soon), co-owner of Blackops Media Group, & a Servant!

Contact me for:

  • One-on-one coaching sessions

  • Group coaching sessions

  • Speaking events

  • Seminars

  • Workshops

  • Hybrid Course creation

  • If interested for interview for my show

  • Interested in a Sponsorship for media TV or radio (coming soon)

  • Interested in having a commercial or banner on my show (coming soon)


What are you waiting for? It's time to take the first step into the rest of your wonderful life.

Your destiny and others await you.

It's time to EXECUTE!!

Are you ready to discover your purpose and walk in your authentic self  and begin having your best life yet.  People are waiting for you to begin Living Life Strong on Purpose!!

Phone: 443.226.8125


Instagram: @DearPaulie

Facebook: Living Life Strong

LinkedIn: Paulette Simmons

YouTube: @Paulette N Simmons

Clubhouse: @Paulette Simmons

Fill out the information below! I look forward to working with you. 

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